I felt like Mellisa was gaming me as much as I was gaming her: on the surface she seemed like someone who I could go on sexual adventures with, develop with, and grow with. I was let down when I found out she wasn’t the one to do it with, she lacked a growth mindset and dedication to development. Maybe I felt like she was gaming me because I’d found myself in a slump the month prior to meeting her. Writing about a girl always make me feel like her chapter is completed, therefore, I can move on. I find myself thinking about the ones I don’t write about more than the ones I do.
Well- done sussing out her calibration as a sign of low self-esteem as quickly as you did. Took me 8 weeks after being love-bombed to come to the same conclusion.
>>I got Mellisa to open up about the books she read. She presented herself as someone who liked to read smart books
She likes to read, okay, that's good.
>>though she confessed that the most recent book she’d finished was on “an archive of our own.” I laughed at the title when she said it. She told me it was werewolf smut"
Okay, what she likes to read is also important. I was hoping she'd be into Robert Gordon, "The Rise and Fall of American Growth", but no.
Werewolf smut might be better than Colleen Van Hooven.
Well- done sussing out her calibration as a sign of low self-esteem as quickly as you did. Took me 8 weeks after being love-bombed to come to the same conclusion.
>>I got Mellisa to open up about the books she read. She presented herself as someone who liked to read smart books
She likes to read, okay, that's good.
>>though she confessed that the most recent book she’d finished was on “an archive of our own.” I laughed at the title when she said it. She told me it was werewolf smut"
Okay, what she likes to read is also important. I was hoping she'd be into Robert Gordon, "The Rise and Fall of American Growth", but no.
Werewolf smut might be better than Colleen Van Hooven.